It was a dramatic break up: he screamed at me and sped off from his car after dropping me off. I tried to apologize and calm him down, and said, "We don't have to break up today. I'm sorry. I'm sorry."
He said, "@/?$*#%#€?" He punched the wall a couple times. He also said a bunch of other mean things to me that I know he only said because he was so angry. I have never more scared in my life of man than I was that day.
Since then, I changed my phone number, and I blocked him from all of my social media profiles.
Except for email.
He has been messaging me and has even offered a gift to myself and my brother. He said, "The gift is to make you and your brother happy, but I don't want to see you in person." Weird. He sent a bunch of other emails about how sorry he is, and that he cares deeply for me and wants me to be happy.
I did not respond.
I am so embarrassed that he lashed out like that, yelled in the street, and punched things.
The gift seemed like a kind gesture, but I don't want it. His sister also keeps tabs of me on Facebook, and I don't want to un-friend her, but I also want to avoid any drama with her. She is, after all, his sister.
Was not responding to his messages the right thing to do? Should I "un-friend" his sister on Facebook?