My ex and I broke up, or he called it "taking a break" about 3 weeks ago and we haven't talked since. I love him so much and don't want to lose him, but I know deep down that he doesn't treat me like I deserve to be treated. we dated for 11 months and it was the longest relationship I have ever been in. he said if it was meant to be we would get back together, but I don't think that will happen. I keep thinking of all the good times we had and it makes me not want to let go. anyways, how do I find a way to let go? thanks!
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As soon as you find a guy that will show you more love then this guy did, you will definitely forget about ur ex. so far, focus on better things that keeps you motivated. 11 months is a lot, I agree. I know you love him but there is so many guys up there who would take his place! they wouldn "take a break" and would treat you the way YOU want to be treated. right now as I see, you are a little bit controled by your ex. he is doing whatever he wants you to do and doesn care if you have feelings. he cares bout himself. maybe his feelings went away or he doesn feel as much as he used to but like I said...if he is the only one who made this choice, and you weren fine with this, this means he's selfish. I don't think you would want a selffish guy in ur relationship. be strong nd hav fun! show him you can do better than him ;) nd thank him that you waisted ur time on him!0