Not a good idea. it's like (I am despaired without you)Sorry for harsh words.
If you have to wonder, you probably shouldn't tbqh.
I mean, is it wrong to do it if it's done out of nice intentions?
Dragging yourself back into his life on *Christmas* isn't exactly a nice intention.
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Accept that it's finished and move on.
What if I wanna be friends with him? I'm the one that broke up with him.
What will that accomplish? Nothing! You don't really want to be friends, you just want him back.
I don't think so! Its just causes more stress!
How does it cause more stress? For me or for him? I mean, I still wanna be friendly but if a simple message like merry Christmas will affect him, then I don't wanna send it.
For both of you!
If you don't mind me asking, but I know it stresses me out because it's an awk situation, however, how does it stress him out if he receives the message? Just wondering so I know what my consequences might possibly be.
Like if you were in that position, what exactly would yiu think if I sent you that text?
Like you two are over. He probably sad or emotional or grieving or whatever maybe bitter maybe he doesn't want deal with it! I think its just best to let him be happy with his family!
Hm okay. I really do want to get to know him though, if it didn't work out as a relationship, I would've really liked to be his friend. We had so much in common but he's a busy guy and I need someone more available so I ended it. Is there any chance I could try to reach out as a friend? i don't wanna lose him completely, I just didn't wanna deal with the stress of being hopeful in a relationship with him since he's never available.
oK.. well than talk to him about just begin friends and than yeah!
Should I do that after New Years and everything?
I think so! Just do what makes you happy! You want text and call him than do it!
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