Just got out of a 7 year relationship 2 and a half were married. I'm just have casual sex not wanting a relationship yet. Personally I haven't processed everything but I still have a sex drive... I do miss my ex though it makes this kinda hard at times hoping this will pass. She wanted it not me. She said she wanted more independence.. Still don't understand but I'm trying to move forward. I do feel guilty at times because I've never been a hookup type of guy. But I'm doing that now. Just very confused.