Do me& my girl had a awesome relationship when we werent fighting she was my best friend when we were together we were forever texting & calling one another we were so close it was scary we had plans to have a family & get married well we would tslk about it it was a long term plan i guess.
but we were going through a bit of a rocky period were we were fighting on & off but we always seemed to recover & things would go back to normal even the night before she ended things everthing was as per normal but she turned around & said i dont feel the same way about you & went really cold & unreasonable & told me i should move on its over. Why would she be like this is it something iv done or do you just turn around & say fuck it were over iv tried to message here & she is still cold & still tells me to move on any advice?
Most Helpful Girl
She is just one of THOSE unstable people. There are millions of people like her. It happened to me as well, my ex broke up with me out of the blue, after being together for 3 years. He also said that he doesn't feel the same anymore. No warnings, no nothing, everything seemed more then fine, we were just booking our trip to Norway. So yeah, it happens. But I don't believe that it can happen to anyone. For instance I know it could never happen to me, because I'm not "built" that way. I can't just not feel the same anymore without a good reason. But some people can, and it's their own issue. Most of them don't even realize it's an issue and they go carry it to their next relationship. And then it happens again. And they don't why, so the easiest thing is to just "blame" the partner and justify their own issue as "he/she wasn't the one". These people are searching for impossible, they are unrealistic and they are very lost. They will probably never be completely happy. Just be glad that you're not one of them. :)0
Most Helpful Guy
Same thing happened to me man. There is nothing you can do to make her change her mind. She created some story in her head that told her you weren't right for her. All you can do is try your best to move on. Stop contacting her since you already have it sounds like. Get a membership to a gym and focus on you. Who knows, she may realize she made a huge mistake and come back to you. Hope this helps!3