I just realized that cheating on your spouse is essential in certain circumstances. It gives them a way out if they want to leave you. If not they will do anything and everything to push your buttons so you yell and they will call you an abuser.. fake injuries, fake suicide, etc. I can't believe this shit. She cheated and I called her out on it then she tried everything to get me to hit her and now I know why... I should have read this stuff 5years ago. What do I do?
Most Helpful Girl
essential? are u freaking kidding me?
no from the start u should have realised she was pushing ur buttons and dealt with it then. u didn't need to yell, u didn't need to take any further action. don't blame someone else or dare to justify cheating because of the fact that you didn't end it when u should have.
clearly it wasn't healthy and it was dragged out for much too long. this is simply a lesson you are learning the hard way, so i will NEVER say that cheating is acceptable or essential under any circumstances.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
Sorry you have such opinions about all woman a relationships. I can tell you that 90% of my High School Friends, only 1 divorce out of 20 friends, girls they met in college. I have three sisters, all married with kids...
I've screwed up my relationships, not them...
What are you doing? Looking for girls in bars?
Dating hair stylists or traveling attorneys?
You need (1) a different game and (2) a different attitude and your whole perspective on woman will change
If you want a good woman, look at her relationship with her family, are they still close or not talking? Look for evidence she doesn't run away from problems. Look for evidence she doesn't always take the easy option. Look to see how many roommates she hates from her past. There are so many red flag, if you get pissy whipped with red flags everywhere, it's not there fault is it?0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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