I've been at work all day, i pick up takeaway and take it over to his, he's looking for a new job and tells me he has a possible interview lined up.. he's always tellling me how I dont ask enough about his life and dont take an interest, so i ask him more about it.. who its for, what its doing.. and he SNAPS like f**k. telling me he doesn't "fu**ing know" why am I going on and on..
I've done nothing wrong today, and he can't even appreciate the the little things i've done. i could have gone straight home but i wanted to see him.
Guys, why are you like this if you are? is it because you're fed up with your girlfriend?
This happens on a daily basis, with him talking to me like i'm nothing, with him blaming me for his actions even if i haven't done anything.
Most Helpful Guy
this happening when you see your happiness through others. you're in a position where you can choose what's best for you. you can choose to be zero in that person's life or to be a jewel in your life.
this not love anymore, this relationship abuse. cut him off and never give him any leeway, cuz nobody has the power to make you feel small unless you give them that power.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
If you don't ask enough, you get cussed out. If you ask too much, you get cussed out. You work all day then try to do something kind for him and have to worry about him killing the vibe. Leave him. At this point, he is disrupting the harmony and peace in your life. When this starts happening, it's time for you to go. Maybe one day, he can stop being such a rude, hostile, argumentative individual but until then you deserve to enjoy a happy life without having to put up with his nasty attitude.
Guys are typically like that because they are unhappy with themselves and their life which has planted bitterness and anger. He probably just wants to relieve any bit of that heavy weight he's carrying even if it's on the wrong person for no reason at all. I get that. That's understandable but you shouldn't have to put up with that. If you would like to live a peaceful, happy, mentally healthy life then you're going to have to end the relationship.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE