This has been going on for months now, and I keep saying it's it and i won't put up with it anylonger, then i end up in the same situation again.
I've been at work all day, i pick up takeaway and take it over to his, he's looking for a new job and tells me he has a possible interview lined up.. he's always tellling me how I dont ask enough about his life and dont take an interest, so i ask him more about it.. who its for, what its doing.. and he SNAPS like f**k. telling me he doesn't "fu**ing know" why am I going on and on..
I've done nothing wrong today, and he can't even appreciate the the little things i've done. i could have gone straight home but i wanted to see him.
Guys, why are you like this if you are? is it because you're fed up with your girlfriend?
This happens on a daily basis, with him talking to me like i'm nothing, with him blaming me for his actions even if i haven't done anything.
Most Helpful Guy
I think he sounds like he is more fed up with life in general. He is likely embarrassed that he can't find a job and is taking his stress out on you!
There is no way in hell he should be venting and taking things out on you... he should appreciate and realize all the little things that you are doing for him.
If he can't see that, then he does not deserve you!0
Most Helpful Girl
If you don't ask enough, you get cussed out. If you ask too much, you get cussed out. You work all day then try to do something kind for him and have to worry about him killing the vibe. Leave him. At this point, he is disrupting the harmony and peace in your life. When this starts happening, it's time for you to go. Maybe one day, he can stop being such a rude, hostile, argumentative individual but until then you deserve to enjoy a happy life without having to put up with his nasty attitude.
Guys are typically like that because they are unhappy with themselves and their life which has planted bitterness and anger. He probably just wants to relieve any bit of that heavy weight he's carrying even if it's on the wrong person for no reason at all. I get that. That's understandable but you shouldn't have to put up with that. If you would like to live a peaceful, happy, mentally healthy life then you're going to have to end the relationship.1