Recently my husband discovered that I am having an affair and asked to choose between him and my lover.
Here is the catch: I don't love my husband. He's a good guy but the love is gone and I am not happy, which is the reason I am having an affair.
I love my lover but I'm being realistic when I think that we might not have a long future together.
He plans to return to his native country in two years and I think his family would prefer for him to marry someone from his native country.
what should I do?
If I leave my husband I know I will be at least happy for the next two years and if I stay nothing will change. I will not be happy.
Most Helpful Guy
Time to move on lady... The trust is gone, even though he says he might forgive you, he will never trust you again and some other guys dick will always be in the back of his mind fucking you... And at this point where you don't love him, you won't be doing any one a great service by staying with him.
Just telling it straight!5THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
You cheated on your husband and all you care about is who is going to make you happy?
You are trifling and a ho and you should be happy that your husband is giving you a choice
I hope you don't get a dime of his money
I think you should divorce your husband because he deserves better
Your liver knows you just a bitchy ho so of course he does not plan on getting serious with you lmao
Why are you surprised he is going back to his country?
You thought he was going to get into a relationship with you?
Never get married again, you obviously don't know the meaning of it10THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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