My girlfriend and mother of 3 kids was having phone sex, ig, kik, and alotta apps behind my back and i have trouble believing her on stuff she tells me now, because that is always in the back of my head that she fucked another guy... has anybody ever been through it and was able to let it go and live happy?
Most Helpful Girl
This is immature behavior for a woman who is in her mid-late twenties and has a pretty big family.
I really think she's not mentally mature enough for a committed relationship.
I mean, sure anyone can bare a child.
But she isn't doing right by them, by sneaking around and doing these deceitful acts.
She doesn't even seem sorry about it because instead of being up front about her behavior she tries to hide it.
She will continue because she has no remorse.
You need to have a talk with her, and leave her if she isn't willing to change.
I doubt that she is willing to change because she seems like the type of woman that will only try to better hide these things so she will not get caught the next time.
I think it's time you start... doing you and meeting other girls.2
Most Helpful Guy
That is disrespectful. I wouldn't even be hard on her honestly because it is just a waste of time. Hell, in fact I would leave her sorry ass. But judging by it, it also seems like you want to work out things with her. Take some time out for yourself and gather your emotions and tell her that you felt disrespected and you are not going to tolerate that kind of stuff anymore. Keep in mind it will probably take some time for you to look past that and if it keeps running through your head. It's time to go, dude. Tread carefully.0
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