see here's my problem I've been seeing this guy for three months now and I really like him, but all he ever talks about is his ex this and his ex that and how there best buddies who like to bullsh*t around on the phone, I'd tell him that its really not fair for him to talk about her so much but I don't want to p*ss him off.. how do I tell him that its really starting to get old and it kinda makes me mad?
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Just talk to him casually when he is in a good mood or when you guys are doing something fun together. If he starts talking about his ex again, just respond to him by saying that you've really enjoyed the past few months you've been together, but you would like to focus on being happy together, which means you and him, instead of thinking about the past (his ex), and that hearing about his ex all the time makes you feel badly because he appears to be focusing on the past rather than the present with you. If he cares about how you feel, he will start to think twice next time he wants to talk about his ex again.
In any event, try to be patient and listen to him but be sure to let him know that you would like him to focus on you instead of the past with his ex. I think that's a reasonable idea and shouldn't p*ss him off at all. If he does get p*ssed off, you might want to talk to him and see what makes him angry. Does he still have feelings for her? That might be a good place to start.