Let's say, hypothetically, that a girl gave a guy a valentine's day card (hand-delivered) with the words written in: "Let me know if you want to grab coffee sometime." And it's the day afterward and he still hasn't said anything. ...That's a "no," right?
Actually, if you could give me some insight into what's going on in his head, that would be great. =)
He said no, so I guess that answers my question. =P But by all means, if you'd like to share what you think is going on in his head, please do so.