I was with my ex boyfriend for 8 years, we have a son who is 6 years old. 2 years ago we had a blazing row and I left the family home, just 2 weeks later I met another guy who I was with for over a year, my ex was absolutely heart broken and begged me to go home, but I was so upset that I had to move out of our family home and set up in council house and buy furniture after I left every thing there for him. when I think back it was always bout him but was to stubborn to admit it or go back crawling to him, as much as I prob wanted to, nearly 2 years have passed and he has been with his current girlfriend for 1 year, he met her beginning of last year and I have been so sad bout this, but still wouldn't tell him how I felt, well until October last year when I finally had the courage to say how I felt, he said that if we we were going to get back together then I would have to wait cause he is happy at the moment, but he cares for me more than I can know. we still see each other every other day cause we have shared access to our son, the girlfriend is now staying at our home and this is very upsetting as we bought this together and she stays there when my son is there. we text several times a day, and he says his girlfriend knows I text but not one text has been discussed with her he says. I have asked to meet this women but for some reason he will not allow it. I have been waiting so long now and I'm hoping he will come back to me, but don't know what he is thinking of doing, can anyone please tell me how men think ? thanks
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You left him. You. He found a girlfriend after you, and though he still loves you ( seeing as he begged you to come back ) he's happy. He doesn't want to ruin it, and he doesn't want the drama. I can't say I blame him.
I don't know why you did what you did, but he's just trying to get it together; I can't say it is his fault or yours that things fell apart but it looks like he's stable now with someone.1