My ex and I broke up a little over two months ago. We went on a break for two weeks and then he cut it off officially. I left him alone for two weeks and he ended up sleeping with some girl we work with. He came back to me and said he wanted to try so we started off as friends and it just was super hard because he was so confused about us. Constantly saying he loves me and wants to be with me but can't trust me. It so complicated because this girl developed feelings for him and was always hanging out with him (she started hanging out with him and our friends Bc we all work together) well I got tired of feeling like I was fighting an unwinable battle and told him I was done one day. Since then they have started to be romantically involved more and it's difficult to be around honestly. Do you think she's a rebound or he just might really be interested?
Most Helpful Guy
Well, I can't say for sure, well since it has happened in a short time after you break up, it's possible this is a rebound!0
Most Helpful Girl
I think he actually may be interested solely because apparently it took hooking up with her to make him realize that he loves you? Uh no- I wouldn't even take him back if he wanted to. You should always be first and right now he could potentially have you, however he's giving her more attention so maybe there's miscommunication, often with ex's if you still love them you don't want to hurt their feelings however when you know it's done it's done but sometimes are in denial and still want them to love you, but you also want to move on. Is probably what I"m thinking.0