My ex broke up with me coz I'm not ready to have sex , even when i told him that i love him he didn't care.. Its was hard for me to deal with this break up u know i'm deeply in love with him... Then after 6 months he called me i was surprised, he told me that he is sad coz we r not together and that he misses me so much he even told me that i'm a hard girl but he really wants me... I was like yes i want you back and I really love you but I won't change my decision, and he disappeared again.. He never told ne that he loves me its hurt
Most Helpful Guy
Unfortunately, a lot of people mistake sex for love. Sex is only one facet of love.
I think you made the right decision to break up with him, but don't make the mistake of letting him back into your life. At some point he may realize what a jerk he's being toward you and any other girl he's ever with.
Sex will happen in your life when you're ready for it. In the mean time, keep to your principles and desires. Learn to watch for signs in guys that just "expect" sex in any relationship - no matter what.
One last thing - it's very very possible to be totally "head over heels" in love with someone long before sex ever happens! I wish you the best!1
Most Helpful Girl
This is a good lesson. NEVER take someone back after they didn't respect you.
Well... don't take exes back ever really but DEFINITELY never take them back after they disrespect you.2