Back story: I'm single, but love a girl two states away. We're not dating but had a mutual agreement that we wouldn't be with anyone else until we were together (little more than a year). Well, I made FWB with my ex and kind of did everything but sex... My first time for many things besides kissing...
I want to save it for the girl I love. And I do love her, we've "been together" for 5 months. And I feel horrible keeping this from her (it happened last week), even though we're not officially together, I don't want another guy touching her, and I am pretty damn sure she doesn't want another girl touching me. I can't put into words how she makes me feel, and the thought of loosing her hurts, a lot. I think of her every morning when I wake up, and every night as I go to bed. I talk to her daily, I want her in my life forever.
What do I do? Do I tell her what I did and hope she forgives me, or do I keep it quiet and stop, or quiet and continue. Vote if you don't feel like typing.
I know I should stop, I wasn't thinking about "us" I was thinking about me, and I realized the actions that I take as a kid can really f*** up our future. I want this girl in my life and don't want to lose her ever. I know there are other girls out there, but I don't want another girl.
Please give me an outside opinion on this.
- Fess up, tell her.Vote A
- Keep it quiet, stop.Vote B
- Keep it quiet, continue.Vote C
Most Helpful Girl
The best thing that you can do is tell her the TRUTH. Otherwise your always going to have it in the back of your mind. Also if she finds out some other way it'll just make the situation worse. So tell her how you feel about her and be completely honest. So if your meant to be together you'll work it out and she'll forgive you. If not, at least you tried and laid it all out there. Even if she may not show it, us girls always want the truth no matter how bad it may hurt. But that's my opinion. It's always better to tell the truth!0