Okay so I am completely paranoid about seeing my ex with someone new. He abandoned me and our son so of course it would hurt to see him w. someone new. BUT I am always seeing men that look like him with a girl.And I need to check and see if they truly are him just so my anxiety goes away.
Has this happened to anyone else? did you find out that it really was ur ex with someone new?
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I'm not trying to offend you, but why have the anxiety in the first place? If you caught him with "someone new" it would probably only stress you out more, making you angry at him for moving on, etc - which is rightfully so, the dude abandoned you and his kid.
He doesn't sound like a responsible adult, he sounds like an immature child that needs to grow up. So many guys run from their responsibilites, what is there to run from?!
Life is more important than money. You will have the best smiles of your whole life, or the worst headaches, from your child. Life is spontaneous, those that can withhold that type of lifestyle will live well; however, those that succumb like the rest, only prove that their not a leader, and that they aren't worth pursueing.
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