Having had a discussion about this previously with friends we are not sure as to who would go about initiating contact again for whatever reason?
Personally I feel like the dumper should be the one to start talking again as they were the one who ended the relationship. However should the dumpee be responsible/able to initiate contact if they are ready to?
I ask as I have been in a NC period for 3 months now and I am over any emotional issues that came with the breakup and am in a good place. What I want to know is whether or not it is ok to try and talk to my ex/old friend yet or should I wait it out til she is ready to come to me? Basically is it the dumpees or dumpers problem to initiate contact?
I am interested to hear your opinions and thoughts :)
Most Helpful Girl
haha well personally speaking, i really dont like the "who should message or talk first" thing. I really think that if you want to talk to the person, you just start off. Holding grudges or ego over it will just mess up things.
When my ex husband and i broke up, although it was him who decided to call off, i really didn't mind getting to talk to him generally. Its all about do you want to talk to the person or not.
Hope it clears some of your confusion :)0
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Most Helpful Guy
if there is ever contact again , usually it be the person who did the dumping decides to for whatever reason try and talk to person they dumped again. either just to be friends or cause they want them back sort of thing. if the dumpee tried often to regain contact , the person likely accuse them of stalking or such0