So the deal is two years ago I had a boyfriend who I sent a few nudies to and then we broke up. He hasn't ever threatened me with them but I am getting married soon and don't know if he stalks my social media. If he does, I'm worried that this will set him off and might cause him to react horribly. Do you think he even still has these photos and if he does, what do you think the chances are he would try to hurt me with them? It has been two full years after all and I haven't spoken a word to him since.
Most Helpful Guy
And this is why you don't send nude selfies over the web and have to watch what you write in emails or other social media: it may come back and bite you in the ass.
Frankly, I think you are safe,. Here's why: In my day, everyone smoked weed, so it would be no shock if I admitted to smoking weed a long time ago in a galaxy far far away. No one would be like "OMG, he smoked weed! *gasp*" because everyone did it - including the hypocrites who gasp and say "OMG, he smoked weed!".
Well, with your generation who the fuck hasn't sent a nude selfie yet? I don't think the universe will blow up if your selfie got out...1
Most Helpful Girl
If he still has them, and he really could be capable of posting them, he is an immature creep who shouldn't be allowed to use social media. He should be over it by now.
So, just be wary of him, but at the same time, don't anticipate trouble. Because it could make you stressed for no reason. Though, if there is a reason, maybe you should directly confront him about it.
Whatever you do, make sure to be calm and not sound offensive ir like you're making accusations because that could set him off to do something cruel and juvenile...0