She screwed around with me and friend of mine (and who knows who else) while playing head games and did all kinds of other awful things (there is so much more to this story)... I'm very anrgy & upset about it all and I feel like this is a weird way of doing the right thing & getting back at her.
- Yes, contact him anonymously...Vote A
- No, it's not worth it, ride the anger out even if it takes months or years...Vote B
- Depends, can this come back to you somehow & cause you more problems?Vote C
So NO I didn't know she was seeing someone.
But I can't decide whether to contact her to discuss this or to anonymously contact the guy... because I can't seem to move past this.
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Yes, you should do him a favor by letting him know that he is being betrayed on a disgusting, awful level. But you should also take accountability for choosing to be a catalyst to his heartache. If you were aware that she has a boyfriend and was cheating, then you should take accountability for being a piss poor human being and carelessly deciding that you would partake in her sleazy choice.2
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