Befriended a cute guy in my gym classes. We see each other a couple times a week. He's a shy guy. Other than me, he doesn't really talk to anyone else. I have a lot of friends in the classes, so I talk to every one. Initially, he was not open to my attempts to make conversation, but now I think we can be considered good friends. I started liking him, and I thought he was starting to like me. We joke around, tease each other, and occasionally flirt (or so I thought). Today, I jokingly asked if he had plans for Valentines day, and to my surprise, he said he was gonna plan something with the girl he's dating. They met on a dating website, which took me by surprise. I acted happy for him, but felt like I got kicked in the stomach. Because we've gotten to be pretty good friends, I don't want him to think anything's changed, but now i think i'm gonna feel awkward when we talk. He always stands next to me in class, and we leave the gym together. I'm not sure if I can handle that right now, after finding out he has a girlfriend. But I don't want to be mean or rude. What do I do?
Most Helpful Guy
how long have you actually known him? if it's not that long, then you more or less just infatuated with him, nothing more so you'll get over it really quick.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe just be happy he still talks to you0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE