Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 4 months, but after we had sex for the first time( we were both virgins) things changed between us. We became more like friends with benefits instead of the way we were. How can we go back to the way we were?
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The answer is kind of plain here, stop making the relationship about sex. If you having sex more than building a relationship, or at least trying to, you need to cut back on the sex. This not to say you shouldn't have sex at all, but when you do, try to make it spark romantically. There is a big difference between "making love" to someone, than there is of just doing it because your are horny.0