And what is considered cheating?
- YesVote A
- NoVote B
- Only thought about it.Vote C
Most Helpful Girl
Cheating is contact (both physical and cyber) with someone other than your boyfriend/girlfriend that you know could cross the line. Now if you are just dating, then anything goes, but if you have discussed it or if it is assumed that you are exclusive, then its cheating. Many people would probably disagree with me, but all of us know when there is a potential opportunity with someone else. That ex girlfriend, that flirtation internet friend you have, etc. All of those are icebergs that should be avoided. I'm 28 and I've had my share of that. But if you ever want to have the 'real thing' you have to have trust with your spouse. And if you love someone, you avoid the icebergs. If your intention is to have your girlfriend but have casual sex, flirtation, or something else on the side, then it is cheating or maybe you aren't satisfied with your girlfriend. That being said, if you know she wouldn't like your 'other' activities, then stop them or let her go. Its when you try to do both you fall into the A-hole category. There is nothing wrong with dating multiple people at a time, but when you have got your self into a committed relationship, then even 'innocent' flirting could be seen as cheating.0