after my ex cheated, lied and dumped me, I still forgave him and wanted to remain civil. a week after the break up he had sex with another girl. I forgave him. for a while, we were fine. we even said we would get back together in the future. following the break up, I was clingy towards him when he asked for space, I would text him and ask for him back because I was attatched to him still. this annoyed him but after I cooled down we started to hang out again and it was as if we were back together. we hung out from November to January.
then he told me he had a thing with another girl and that he had been cheating on her with me and that he had no feelings for me and was just using me for sex. he told me to move on. I said okay, because I didn't want to be clingy. then, out of the blue, he texts me "get out of my life. I love her and not you. get over me. im blocking you".
he blocked me on instagram and facebook and deleted all our pictures together and blocked my number.
I then texted the girl he had a thing with and told her that we had been sleeping together for the past three months because I didn't know they were together. she blocked him on facebook and instagram too. and now he totally hates my guts. should I feel weird about this? I dont like ending on bad terms with people.
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Was the sex good?0
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First of all NEVER let a guy mistreat you and being disrespectful at that. Sad to say it seems like he was using you from the jump. You shouldn't feel weird at all, at the end of the day all wrong doing was done to you so why feel weird or bad. If anything you should be taken for granted. Personally I wouldn't have reached out to the girl because bets to believe if it was that easy for him to quickly start messing with her, guarantee he's going to move on from her as well. But you see with people like him you just wash your hands and be done completely. Take care of yourself and love yourself so much that you never have to settle for something like that. Trust me his own karma will catch up to him0