I broke up with my boyfriend last year for the 3rd time and its been 2 months , we keep talking even tho where not together anymore and when I asked him if we can work things out he just say 'idk' 'you left me' I cried every night because of this im wrong and I learned from it I keep saying sorry and he just keep telling what happened before. I say I love you to him and send hearts he sometimes send hearts and I love you not in a proper way. I begged him to take me back he just said 'this is your mess you fix it on your own' I keep sending him I love you message and some of the photos to remind him of us but he doesn't say anything special on it. I need advice please I just can't take it :( I know its my fault I dont know whats my deal I think im bipolar or just moody coz I get mad on silly things :(
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Its obvious that you have hurt him in a bad way if he replies to you like that. I don't know what happened between you two but the fact that you have taken responsibility for your actions is admirable and I commend you for that!
There is one thing you can try: Issue an ultimatum. Meet up with him for coffee or something and lay it all on the table. You like him, you want him back, you've taken responsibility for your actions etc. Then state that the decision to get back together is ultimately his. Tell him he needs to see if his love for you is more than his anger/disappointment. Then leave it to him. DON'T CALL OR MESSAGE UNTIL HE GETS BACK TO YOU. If there is one thing that can irritate a man is a girl that continually pesters him. So give him his space. If he does not reply to you at all, then you know that its time to move on.
Also, getting mad on silly things does not mean that you are bipolar. And not everything is your fault. Remember that relationships are a 2 way street. Both of you have to work at it. If your ex was at fault for some things and he did not take responsibility for it, then you are not entirely at fault.
I hope this helps. Feel free to message anytime0