We didn't speak for 5 days before he started acting as if nothing happened. I said, "I told (mutual acquaintances) we had broken up. It seemed final" He said, "Aw, you didn't have to do that. It doesn't mean we can't talk. It doesn't mean that I don't care for you or love you." and I responded, "What do you mean? What doesn't mean we can't talk? I still want to see you, I'm not sure what you want." and other feelings
I could tell he walked away from the convo to do something else for over an hour. (If I do that he gets upset.) I said, "I feel like I was left hanging." he came back very hostile. Said I was "accusing" him of leaving him hanging. He also made it clear he was still convinced I "judged his culture" the previous week. I said, "No, you ASSUMED I did. You twisted my words. " He said,"I don't like the way you're acting. I was loving, treated you well, gave you gifts & this is how you repay me. It's best we don't speak anymore".
3 days later, he wrote, "FYI, *that* is leaving you hanging." Me-"You said let's not speak anymore though. " Him-" FYI being clumsy with your words is not the same as having them twisted. Yes, let's not, I don't have much of anything to say to you."
Any guesses? Did he start these fights to get rid of me? Is he likely to try to start things up again? What's wrong with him?