Me and my boyfriend of 1.6 years broke up because his mother is a heart patient and she's seriously ill and she doesn't want him to be with me. He says he wants me badly in his life but not at the cost of his mother. I love him and he loves me and its killing me to be without him even though its been just a day. He messaged me yesterday but I ignored because the more we stay in contact, harder it will be for us to move on and I had told him this before and I don't know why he messaged me then. I'm just 19. I tried a lot for our relationship in last months where he turned really rude and distant - he says its because he wanted to push me away because we don't have a future. He's been in love with me since 7 years. How do I move on? He was also my bestfriend.
Most Helpful Guy
couldn't he just lie and tell her that y'all broke up? i mean if she's ridiculously ill, how many times is she gonna be out of bed (or maybe the hospital) to validate y'all being together? also, is that some type of death wish or something? like, i don't get it. it's pretty sad, but something doesn't add up, but i can't put my entire finger on it.0
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Most Helpful Girl
That's so sad and unfortunate. 😞The worst thing to do is jump into other relationships. You'll just prolong your hurt, because how can you focus on someone new when your heart still belongs to the guy who broke. It.
All you can do is accept his decision. It would be sad to cut all ties under the circumstances. You have to ask yourself which is more painful... not having him in your life at all or accepting things as they are and remain friends. In time, his circumstances will change so if he truly loves you then he'll find his way back to you somehow.0