- Talk to him about it
- Don't talk to him about it
Should I tell my ex how I feel?
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I've been there. Biggest mistake ever. You have no idea how much I regret staying friends with him, it made me look weak and pathetic and it made me dump as fuck. You are being manipulated. And you're not aware of it, of course, you're still wearing a pink glasses. You gotta remove those glasses, honey. He dumped you, he gave up, he doesn't want you. I know it hurts, but if you think about it he made you a favor because he's not what you need. He did this because mother nature knows that there is a way better guy out there waiting for you. Your ex is not that guy. You're still stuck on him because he made it look like he's not a bad guy, giving some BS excuses and sticking around. He is a bad guy. I assure you that he doesn't love you, if he loved you first of he would never dump you (no matter the distance) and second he would never made you his fwb! He seems very immature to me (copy-paste of my ex, lol). If you continue doing this, eventually he will think of you as suuuch a good friend and a loyal puppy, and you will be the first one he will tell when he meets another girl and falls in love. And if you thought THIS is difficult, wait until that happens. I know you think now "noo he would never do that!" oh yeah he would! My advice is to get up, wash the dirt of yourself, look at the mirror at how beautiful and amazing you are, and tell yourself you worth A LOT MORE. Don't be an idiot, you're gonna regret it trust me. If you want him back or if you want to get over him, do the no contact in both cases. Now! Yes from this very moment, ignore him! Don't talk to him about this, why would you? If he has any brain cells he will understand why you are doing this. It's gonna be really hard but trust me it's worth the long run. Let him wonder a little bit. If it's too hard for you to just ignore him all of a sudden, you could give him some hints the next time he writes you, for example tell him that you're not in the mood and that you're tired and busy. Be cold and distant. And then the next time he writes you just ignore him.
Been there too, and to make long story short, the pain that comes after will be so much greater than to talk about it and to cut it off now. The best timing to stay friends again is when you are fully over him, not now. Staying somewhere between the zone of friend and couple can hardly generates good consequences. Take care.
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