Hi I'm newly married just got married Agu 29 2015 me and him have had lots of problems we are currently separate trying to fix things but I don't know of its the right thing to do I'm 24 I have twin girls from a past relationships that lasted 5 years he was married before and has a child with his ex he is obsessed with the gym video games and stuff like that there's nothing wrong with it but he goes to the gym everyday for 3+ hours then he comes home and goes to work that is one of are main issues to him his fitness is first then are marriage and I want to have one more kid I really want a baby boy but he doesn't he said I could chose if I want to be with him or have another child I don't know if I'm making a right chose of getting back with him he's going to be 30?
Don't know if I should be in this relationship?
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You need to get out0
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he'a kinda manipulating and threating you with leaving IF you want a child... he doesn't seem like he cares about the marriage like you do... his gym shouldn't be on the first place but the kids and you !
Have a serious talk with him if that's possible... did he made clear to you that he didn't want kids from the beginning?0
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