If a guy who dated you and was madly in love with you broke up with you for a minor reason... and you tried messaging him for months
they block you from FB IG sms and all forms of communication
does that necessarily mean he hates you and moved on?
the reason he broke up was because he said I don't trust his words that he will one day commit/marry and I'm rushing him to marry!
which is untrue! He misinterpreted my words!
also, he always talked about having kids with me and our future together. Not once did I accuse him of rushing things!!! So I feel wronged. I don't think at all he is evil but he is emotional and stubborn which can be destructive
Most Helpful Guy
No i dont think he hates u. He just doesn't like you anymore. My ex girlfriend really hated me and said a lot of nssty stuff to me. She blocked me. gsve me middlefingers on the street. She now unblocked me after slmost a year i dont know why.
Most Helpful Girl
Sounds to me like he probably said those things because he thought you wanted to hear them. Then after a while it dawned on him what he was saying. It sounds silly, but perhaps he didn't realize that one day you were going to expect him to act on all of his talk.
Maybe he scared himself, and he realized he wasn't ready for that type of commitment. Hence the sudden dumping. It doesn't sound to me like you did anything wrong, he was the one bringing it up, not you.
in my opinion if he is refusing to talk to you, there isn't much else you can do. I mean you could try messaging him, but it sounds like you are already doing that to no avail. The best thing you can do is to try and move on.
I know it's hard, but there will be a guy who will say those things to you and mean it. It just sucks that there are people out there who say things like that without thinking about the ramifications.