My boyfriend broke up with me Monday as he revealed he kissed another girl Sunday night. He left the relationship, because he promised before we started dating that he would leave if he cheated. He claimed he had to keep his promise and he made up his mind. He has not physically made contact with me for days. But continues to text me.
I know I shouldn't reply back but I can't help it. As upset as I am I'm still in love with him. He meant so much to me. We had so many plans. And I wonder if he hadn't cheated would he have broken up with me. Or if deep down this was his ticket out of the relationship.
I'm heart broken, empty, I want him, I feel like I need him, but I can't force him, and I shouldn't be the one asking him to stay, he apologized for what he did and his absence with a sorry but he's not begging
He probably does not regret it and that's why he's not reaching out he's only reaching out when he chooses and for not the reasons I would hope. As he told me he doesn't want to fuck anyone else before high school ends and wants to know who has said certain things about us, I know I should be moving on but it hurts so much. I miss him. He was so much and apart of me. I feel like I'm slowly breaking. I can't eat and sleep but I feel sick. Sad. I have talked to other people and it does not help me the way it should. I'm so unhappy, I'm slowly giving up. And I'm afraid. That I'll never feel the same kind of love again
Most Helpful Guy
I know it's hard but you have to cut off contact with him. That's the best way to heal and get over him. Also, you still have your whole life ahead of you so I'm sure you'll find love again0
Most Helpful Girl
Fuck him, he doesn't want you. iI know it hurts but you're not available to him anymore, he's made it clear. Talk to other people. When you think of him repeat that you'renot aavailable to him and that he no longer wants you. Cutting all contact with him is the first step of getting over him. We're young and make mistakes and that's OK. Everyone plays the fool sometimes, just keep in mind continuing down the road you're going is only making it more difficult/ prolonging your recovery. Don't beg for his love, if he wants you he'll come back to you if not take this relationship as a learning experience and know that it had to happen to better you/ for you to grow.0