I am very good friends with this girl named Chelsea. She is two grades older than me, but we hang out a lot. I've known her throughout all my years of high school. I am also really good friends with her boyfriend Jake who is in my grade. I hang out with Jake a lot because we are good friends. Well he other day I was hanging out with my gay friend Gavin. He told me that we had sex with Jake. I have heard rumors of Jake being bi but I never asked or anything. Gavin knows Chelsea and I don't understand how he could disrespected her like that. I don't know what to do because I want to tell Chelsea but everyone would know it is me who told. Maybe it's none of my business, but I would want to know if it was me that it happened to. I love Chelsea, she is one of my very best friends. I just don't know what to do.
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Hmmm, ask your gay buddy Gavin for some proof that he's slept with Jake. Can he give you some distinguishing birth mark or details of some kind. Can his story be verified in someway?
If it can, and you truly care about your friend, you would tell her, ONLY if you know Gavin's story is true. She'll find out eventually. And if she finds out it was true and you knew, it might be a big issue in your relationship with her.
Chances are if Gavin's story is true, Jake is on the fence about being gay. Chelsea will certainly be in need of a good friend to comfort her on why her boyfriend is sleeping with men. lol sorry : )0