I feel angry, sick to my stomach and feel used by my ex boyfriend who just dumped me. What led to the breakup: he found out my dad didn't like him as my dad believed he was playing me. I didn't listen to dad cos my boyfriend at the time said my dad was wrong and told me that his grandfather went against fam to marry his grandmum. He wanted me to fight for him. So i did by going back and talking to dad-there was a lot of arguing. In the end Dad said he wanted me to be happy but did warn me because he's a guy and can see through him. I happily told my boyfriend that dad wanted me to be happy. THEN my boyfriend turns around and says nah sorry I've lost interest now. Im like wtf? I went through all of that for nothing! I felt my energy couldve been used on something else! Anyway, dad was right. Turns out he saw another girl at the same time but even after dumping me he still sends me texts!!! The saying "you can't have ur cake and eat it too" stuck in my mind for not talking to him. I chose NC but seriously, do i have a right to be angry and pissed off at my ex? He tells me im acting nonsense but i feel so hurt and angry and im wondering is this normal what im feeling?
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its normal what you are going threw. just go NC and move on. he is not worth your anger you have for him, as long as you stay up set and dont move on he wins in controlling you. your better than that1