I was doing the 21 day no contact and all of a sudden I get a phone call from my ex (married) boyfriend. I ended things between us because it was an unhealthy situation. I wanted a real relationship. I wrote him a letter stating that, and more. Then I defriended him and here it is (about four days away from hitting the 30 day no contact mark) and... He calls me. Why? He's still married. I am confused. Thanks in advance for the feed back guys.