She's been married to him for 8 years and she's not in love anymore but afraid to leave?
What Guys Said 2
People generally fear change, especially women. It tends to really upset their ability to focus on things.
Your friend will change, when the fear of change itself becomes less than the fear of staying in the same situation.
If her husband was discharged from the military for AWOL, his discharge papers are likely anything BUT Honorable. There are a lot of businesses that won't hire someone with that kind of a background. From everything you describe, this guy is definitely lazy though. As for him keeping a POS job, you can blame that on the system. Divorced guys get the short end of the stick when it comes to child support. I found out the hard way myself. They can legally take up to 70% of his paycheck for child support and alimony. Taught me to have as low a paying job as possible. I still paid my bills and lived up to my responsibilities.
You can't fix other people's problems.
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