My girlfriend got really mad with me because she found on an old notebook HD some intimate photos from my ex, which I really didn't even remembered existed. This HD is from 7 years ago, and she found it when I was on a business travel.
I truly understand her pain and I was sorry for have forgotten that old trash, and the worst is that that HD was on her apartment.
We really love each other and everything was working fine between us, we were making plans for our future together and even started some of those plans.
I explained her that that was nothing that I have done against her, I've just neglected that old trash, but she still believe I was really storing tha s**t. I also said to her that no matter what happened on my past, this has nothing to do with our present and it changes nothing between us, just like she also have a past and I don't bother her about it.
It's been 6 long days since she broke up with me and all the time I try to talk to her she attack me directly with offensive words that really hurt a lot! She made clear that she don't want anything with me anymore. At the same time she send a message once in a while to offend or to question or to reaffirm she no longer want me in her life.
What should I do? I apologized some times, sent some romantic messages reaffirming how important she is in my life and how much I want to help her cure this wound, but she's still rejecting me.
Only one more thing, maybe an important one: everytime I send a message (Whatsapp, Instagram) she take a look immediatly. Also she asked me to forget her forever 2 days ago, but she kept sending me questions about my past and offending me.
She questioned me about other things, nothing serious (I forgot to tell her about a document with my ex name) and I explained. She got mad with me again and said that we have nothing. I don't understand!
Most Helpful Girl
she is obviously hurt, and she is right to feel this way. You need to see it from her point of view. I dont think that she really wants to break up with you. If you want to fix this just be patient. Make sure that you reassure her every day that you love her and this was just a mistake. If she makes silly comments just dont engage in arguments. Sort of like been the adult when she acts like a child. I believe you can fix this by making her understand that only she matter to you
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Most Helpful Guy
This sounds like it hit her more peraonally than it should have.
Have you asked, or do you know, if she has ever neen cheated on before?1