OK I think I am stuck between a rock and a hard place. My boyfriend and I have been very discreet about our relationship around our children. However...I believe that his ex-wife (been divorced 9 years), whom he has two teenage children with, is learning that I am a part of his life. I believe she is intentionally trying to make things difficult for my boyfriend, and his children in attempt to either get him back to her or to screw things up between us. What do I do, as he likes to use me as someone to vent to when he has problems with her.