So i need aome advice my ex and i are trying to work things out. He said that he can't be what i want right now but still wants to try sort us out. What does he mean by he can't be what i want? He said we are talking and if he wasn't talking he wouldn't want to sort things out. Last week he invited me out for tea but that didn't go ahead as he didn't have the money to go out. Is he genuinely putting in effort or half assing it? I'm putting in an effort vut i want him to meet me half away. Please tell me what to do to make him want to put in an effort and spend time together
Can you help me? Ex boyfriend trouble 😢😢😢 ?
What Guys Said 3
He can't or won't be the boyfriend you want him to be. If you're wanting more together time for example he can't or won't oblige that. I think you're wasting your time. Dump him for good0
Look at this logically, a good relationship takes time to come to light. You have time and as long as you can take the waiting then i see no reason to just to this conclusion. However if he is genuinely not trying just wait and see what happens, if by the end of 4 weeks, let him be and move on. Im quite liberal when it comes to this so perhaps taking a more conservative choice is another option.0
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