We dated for 3 months but spent a lot of time with each other. She broke it off with me saying because I don't trust her. I saw many red flags that lead me to be concerned. Here are the red flags these are the facts I'm not going to write down what her excuse is for what I saw...
She found a mans watch in her room and gave it to me thinking it was mine. Awkward moment it ended up belonging to a guy she was screwing before me...
After she notified the owner of the watch he started texting her like at midnight wanting to see her.
she only wanted to see me on weekends. During the week day if I wanted to come over she would usually say no but if I did she seemed annoyed that I was there.
she always clears her phone log. I have never seen her call history. She also keeps her app history clear.
during the week we only talk at night before bed. During the day I barely hear from her and if I do message her she replies like I'm a friend or doesn't reply for hours. She doesn't even reply on her lunch or answer my calls.
She did my laundry and gave me this warning saying if I find some men shorts or underwear they are her gay guy friends bc he came by to swim during the summer.
the owner of the watch was on her Facebook... she was liking his stuff within the time frame we were together...
That said she lost interest said the spark is gone bc of me questioning her like I don't trust her and broke up with me. My eyes teared up we didn't fight I tried to say again if any guy were in my shoes they would of been concerned but she stood her ground. So I just gave her one last hug and I kissed her forehead and said I wish you the best and I'm going to miss you and walked out of her apt went home deleted her number and Facebook. The next day she text me saying I left some shorts there and I have her phone charger. I never replied bc I was broken. It's been 5 days now and she hasn't said anything else.
Most Helpful Girl
well for me, she doesn't love you anymore and she just made those excuses for her to take her freedom from you. she loves someone else and obviously it wasn't you.
Most Helpful Guy
Good, keep it that way. Those are a lot of red flags, a few are even out right flares. She was untrustworthy your better off without her. Seriously from the sound of it her breaking up with you is the best thing to happen to you now you have a chance to find some one who is trust worthy and loyal. Sounds like she was cheating or using you to begin with.