My boyfriend and his ex were going out for about 2 years. Last year, he asked me out. I DID NOT KNOW THEY WERE TOGETHER. So, she found out and all this drama went down and he chose me over her. Well, he found out that she died because of suicide because of family issues, this morning and he's acting all sad. I honestly feel a bit jealous and like he's beinga hypocrite for this.
- YesVote A
- NooVote B
Most Helpful Guy
Just because they stopped dating doesn't mean she stopped being a human being, I don't see why people think it's normal to police someone's emotions over someone they had been in a relationship with, just how narcissistic can people get? Why do people think it's okay to just stop caring about people they once cared about COMPLETELY, and act JEALOUS of all things and controlling and pissed off that you dare care about their death?
Some people are just crazy with their possessiveness.
Anyways, I voted B). But her committing suicide over a boy is very immature. Of course, there's no way to fix that anymore, is there?0
Most Helpful Girl
He would be a little heartless if he felt no emotion at all about her dying. Especially when she ended her own life. That is so sad.
To be honest, if i was with a guy and his ex committed suicide and he felt NO emotion or empathy at all... that would concern me.
Her family will be devastated and he will obviously feel empathy for them too. I can only imagine how heartbreaking it must be for her family. All they will be able to do is find a way to live with the pain of losing her in such tragic circumstances.
Your boyfriend obviously has a compassionate side , so instead of feeling jealous and viewing him as a hypocrite try to focus on his quality of empathy , and be thankful that he has sensitive side... not a lot of people do. Maybe he has a guilty conscience too , and wonders if he could have played a part in her unstable emotional state.0