My ex of 4.5 years and I ended it after I caught him with not one, but three other women in full-blown relationships. Some for years. I did everything short of beg him for answers and honesty when it happened I was hurt, he refused to let me know why lead on such a lie for so long. Now almost a year later he wants to clear his conscious and seek my forgiveness. I told him to go fuck himself or whoever the new group of ladies is, but why would a man lie like that for so long? I don't understand royally fucking someone over like that without knowing and enjoying the fact that it will hurt someone else.
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First off i want to say i know where you are coming from my ex cheated on me and it was horrible granted we were together only 6 months but either way no one deserves to be cheated on ever. He doesn't want to admit to him self that he is a peace of sh1t he knows he is he just doesn't want to admit it. You already know you are way way way better than he could ever hope to be. He's just coming out now to clear his own mind to find some peace with in him self so he doesn't have that weighing down on him anymore. It could also be because he had something similar happen to him so he now knows what you felt. Karma's a B*tch and she's brought bricks to a glass house and is making it rain... Seriously tho they say what goes around comes around. You are way better than him just please dont let this affect you with other men. I promise we're not all that way.0