He told me I don't make him happy anymore and he doesn't love me. He said he's felt like this for weeks but didn't talk to me about it. He's recently admitted to being addicted to the Xbox and having a hard time. His sister thinks once he's had some space he'll call me. Am I getting my hopes up or should I move on?
Most Helpful Guy
You "don't make him happy anymore"? That's his reason? He thinks his happiness comes from someone else? And he's 27 now?
Young lady, please... find someone else. This guy has yet to grow up. I understand he has fun on the Xbox playing video games. But to trash you over him spending time on the "box"? I don't think so.
His happiness needs to come from himself, not some-one or some-thing. If this is how he views relationships, he's in for an extremely rude awakening because EVERY relationship has its fun times and it's difficulties. It's how dedicated the individuals are to working through those that makes for strong, long lasting ones. It sounds like he's not interested at all.1
Most Helpful Girl
Always move on. Never wait for anyone. That is the worst mistake you will ever make.2