Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 years, since a high school. I moved away to go to college and he stayed back and works a mediocre job with no ambition to do anyting else. He has always been very possessive and jelous of even friends. I guess now that I've been away from him the last 2 years of college, I am starting to be emotionally and mentally exhasted from the fights we have over stupid childish things. Since I am a full time student and my relationship with my parents are not that great he is kind enough to pay my phone bill and sometimes buys me things I need once I lost my job. He always hold these things over me whenever we fight. I think I am ready to finally end the realtionship and the past 2 weeks we have not talked too much and he can tell I am getting distant.
I went on a date with a guy, and it was the most fun I've had in a while. We have so many things in common and we have a physical attraction. Im not saying we are going to jump into a relationship, but he is what I had always wanted in a boyfriend. Should I have just not done that untill we broke up... I just need to find the right time and get my finances in order since I will no longer being getting help from a boyfriend now
Most Helpful Guy
There is so much to answer and say beyond what the question asked. First off an without judgment of you what you should have done is assess your current relationship and see if anything could have been done so as to avoid this issue if you didn't want the relationship you should have sat down and told him so and had a conversation with him about it and broke on good terms. That being said what is done is done and looking back is not an option. So as to help with your current situation I need info so as to give you the best answer I can have you and your new love had sex yet? Be honest because if you have or not will greatly determine how you should handle the situation at hand and my advice and how you should approach the situation may not be effective with out your honesty.0
Most Helpful Girl
If you want to end the relationship then fine, you should but you shouldn't be staying with your boyfriend for money. Stop depending on him and take care of yourself. There is a difference between being with someone you love and they buy you things and help you when in needed and staying in an unhappy relationship for a while longer to get your money in order. For me personally I would hate to be finically dependent on a man I didn't want to be with, I'd rather save my self respect struggle to get by0