How do you get closure for the loss of a friendship? So out of nowehere, my friend cut me out of his life completely. I'm so confused because we weren't fighting or anthing? I didn't do anything to upset him. He just out of the blue started ignoring me. I get the feeling he doesn't want to be friends anymore and I'm really heartbroken about it. It would be so much eaiser to move on if I at least KNEW why he wants me out of his life. How can I ge closure from this? He's on my mind constantly. I catch myself coming up with all sorts of scenarios that made him leave but still can't figure out.
Most Helpful Guy
Well, I am sure there must be a reason for him to cut you off from his life. There can be some possibilities:
1. Either you did something that you are not aware of but he knows that and that has hurt him so much that now he no longer wants you in his life as a friend.
2. I mean the part where he started ignoring you must have been happening from a while, I don't know how suddenly a person can start ignoring you out of the blue.
3. It's possible that there is something happening in his life and so at this point he can't afford any friendships.
Yes, I can understand you would want a reason as to why he want you out of his life, but then you really can't do anything about it. If he doesn't want to tell you then he won't tell you. What you can do is wait, may be one day he will come to you and give you the explanation that you want to know.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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Most Helpful Girl
He is either an asshole or you did something that really hurt him. But since you already went through all sorts of scenarios in your head, I'd say he's just an asshole. I don't know, are sure you haven't done anything? Maybe talked behind his back or lied about something?
I only ghosted out once without an explanation, on my ex. We stayed friends after we broke up but I found out that he was lying to me about many stuff and I just cut him out completely without a word. He had no clue why and I saw no point in explaining myself to a douchbag.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE