I was (am?) in a long distance relationship. It seemed really serious, we even talked about our future plans. Suddendly, he said he's wondering if it's going to work out because of the distance and it makes him really upset. And then nothing. He's silent for a few days, doesn't reply my messages but I know he's read them. I've never expected he could just leave me without a word. My heart is broken but I just want to say goodbye. What should I do to make him talk to me?
Most Helpful Guy
You can't make anyone talk to you. Only thing you can do is think about yourself. Do what he is doing. Just go quiet. Quickest way of getting someone's attention is to remove yours. If and when he does contact you. Just tell him that you don't deserve to be treated like this and ask where you stand. If he can't give you that, then just walk and find someone else who can. Good luck.2
Most Helpful Girl
The most painful goodbyes are the unspoken and unsaid ones, because they leave you with endless questions, so you feel you don't have closure. Sometimes you just have to let things be, and realise some things aren't meant to be understood... just accepted
Long-distance relationships are too hard to maintain, it is rare that they work out. There's too many obstacles that prevent you both from being together. The only way they work is if both people are putting in equal amounts of effort , and both are making sacrifice to a help it survive.
Personally i would just move on from him. Why lose yourself to someone who doesn't care about losing you , and why waste your feelings and emotions on a guy who obviously doesn't value them. If you do , you will just drowned in your own sorrow0