Yesterday evening my (now ex) boyfriend broke up with me and it really hurts because I really love him, and our relationship was serious and we were even gonna get married next June! And I started going to his house and hanging out with him and his family almost every day. I feel so heartbroken and like I'm shattered into pieces. And late this morning he called me right after I woke up when I was eating, and he said "you're really sad huh!" I was like "WHAT?" Totally surprised and I told one of my friends on Facebook and I was like "WOW!!! I thought that he doesn't give a damn about me or my feelings!" That's what I kept thinking last night and this morning when I was on my bed crying and pouting. Why would he say that when HE broke up with ME? And I know he told me earlier that he's really sad and maybe mad, angry. He said he was crying a lot last night too when he went to bed to go to sleep.
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Everyone demonizes the person who initiates the break up, yet a lot of people are still sad to end the relationship. I adored my ex to the nth power, but I was feeling taken for granted and I didn't see a happy future for us. We talked about marriage and a life together, but I found out I was not valuable to him. I tried to fix our relationship, but that was ignored and then there were big arguments over that. Breaking up w/him shattered my heart, but I knew everything worked out for the best. Maybe your ex truly cared for you and just didn't see a future in the relationship.0