I am engaged to a man who does not want the same things I do. I've been confiding in a male friend to gain a male perspective on the situation and if its possible that my guy will change his mind on certain issues. I'm in love with my friend. I sneak texts to him, stay up late to chat with him after my guy goes to sleep. He wants what I want from life and I've told him how strongly I feel. We haven't done anything physical, its all just emotional...Would you consider it cheating?
- It's cheatingVote A
- It's not cheating, its only words.Vote B
Most Helpful Girl
Why are engaged? Seems you have issues you should work through before you marry and bring kids into the world...If you have the slightest doubt...STOP...and don't do it until you have no more questions...Sounds like you have a stronger relationship with your "friend". If you can't talk and confide in your guy you already have a failed relationship...And don't expect him to change a bit...He may but you have no guarantees...You need to accept your mate exactly as they are...Maybe you should be with your friend and let your future husband off the hook before you both F___ each others lives up...Best of luck. Cheers!0