My ex boyfriend and I have been broken up for 7 months. I still think of him, just wondering what he's up to. We were together for 10 months. He's was a good person at first, but the pressure from work, becoming a sous chef, paying the rent and living with 3 roommates, he changed. I wasn't aware of what he was going through because he wouldn't tell me, i knew something was wrong but he would just say "I'm fine." He became more distant, less communicating, displaying no emotions and just plain cold. I stuck with this for 5 months. I gave him space when he asked and was trying to be gentle with him. I broke up with him because he said that was what he needed and when everything was okay, we'd get back together, he didn't want to lose me though which he said often. He always told me I was independent, strong, caring, smart, beautiful woman, he admired that about me. But i was tired of being his punching bag when he was angry, he'd just hurt my feelings. One day i had enough, i was checking on him because i hadn't heard from him, (I didn't know he was at work) he was furious and told me he didn't want anything from me, wished he never got involved with me, but he said he didn't want to be done with me and Im a stupid bitch. I sent him a text saying "we are done." An hour later he responded by "I'm sorry for hurting you and making you cry. I'm not mad at you just wished i showed you i cared about you more. I hope you find someone who appreciates you like you did with me, okay bye I'm sorry."
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At some point, yes. I sometimes dream of them too. I had a girlfriend from 4 years back and I still dream of her. Sometimes, I would think of her alone. Even after I get into a different relationship. The point is, you will never forget a person who has been part of your life. And stop trying to forget that person because you might forget the lesson it brought you. :) Someone out there is waiting for you. Good luck!0