I need to break up with him, but I want to do it the right way. What do I do if he tries to guilt me into staying? What do I say?
Most Helpful Guy
Talk to him meet somewhere public and set new rules. Even if the rules are cheesey it will defuse the tension.
Most Helpful Girl
Your boyfriend is manipulating you, if he was truly sorry, he would be busting his butt to treat you different (your resentment shows he isn't making an effort). My ex kind of freaked out the 1st time I brought up my discontent and he was so afraid I would break up w/him. After he saw that I wasn't leaving, he continued the behavior to a point where we had a big argument about it and I ended up breaking up w/him a couple days later. Yeah he gave me the heartfelt "I will change" crap a couple days later, but I knew nothing would change. I was done w/the heartbreak. Just break up w/him and don't take him back.