I responded with this a day later
"I want to say thank you for your wishes the other day. I was very much surprised, and although it was nice of you, I want you to still respect my need for space. To be honest, Im still angry at you, not because of the decision you made to leave (im glad you made it), but your behaviour was awful towards me and the last thing I remembered of you were the swear words that came out of your mouth before I left overseas. It wasn't okay at all, and frankly, disrespectful. I got no apology and I found it... disgusting. I don't tolerate that behaviour from anyone. Everything, and that moment made me reallse I can't look at you the same way anymore and I realised I no longer have those feelings for you. I sincerely wish you all the best and I want you to do well in life. But seriously, dont ever swear at a lady."
So what do you guys think of the message I sent? I wanted to keep it as classy as possible and be polite.
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Honestly, you probably shouldn't have responded at all. I know it's hard not to cave, especially when there's something you want to get off your chest, but NC means NC lol, but it's done now. Back to the text, it seems kind of long :-/ sounds like you had a lot to say and it should've been done via phone call, or just keep the text short and vague if you didn't want to talk on the phone.