I didn't know he was invited to the party. When he arrived he went straight to all my friends when I wasn't talking to them. I went to the bathroom, and he tried to make eye contact with me when I was walking there and I looked away. He kept asking all my friends if he should leave the party. Anyway, one of his roommates followed me upstairs and told me he missed me and gave me a big hug. Then I went downstairs, and all of his other roommates were telling me that they missed me and were giving me hugs and genuinely asking how I was. I never ended up talking to my ex because I didn't feel well and I really didn't want to be at a party he was at. I went home really upset.
I guess my question is, why in the world would he keep talking to all my friends and why were all his friends talking to me? Does he just want us to be cool and friendly with each other? Initially I wanted that, but I'm just so hurt by our breakup.
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Depending on how long you two were together friends will begin to overlap. If things ended well as a result of nobody being overtly mean/ is a jerk than it is entirely possible to remain friends. I know it sucks seeing them everywhere but if you two can move past that you can still have a really good friendship as a result. I'm still good friends with my ex's as we were good friends before we stared dating. It happens sometimes, you just have to move on.0